Can you be a romantic and manly at the same time? Well, it’s a tricky one, but yes. Some men may be more romantic than others, but a few simple changes in behaviour can ensure you’re keeping your loved one happy while not loosing any of your masculinity.No one expects everyone to be running to their partner’s house with a rose between their teeth, but you can look at your personality and see what romantic gestures you can come up with without it being out of character. For example, you may only be a casual dresser, but you can still dress up for your partner by looking at a casual suit, which can then be worn with a gent’s cashmere tie and a suitable pair of shoes.
Once you have found a suit and you’ve browsed gent’s cashmere ties to find the winning combination, where do you go from here? Well, it may be time to look at your talents. Do you play guitar? Then, instead of a poem why not writing your partner a song? Are you good with your hands? Then build them a personalised jewellery box. Nothing is more romantic than something that has been made especially for that person, regardless of whether you’re wearing a gent’s cashmere tie or not.
The theme of music can also lead you to look into your music collection, are there any songs there that remind you of any special occasions or events. This could be anything from your first date, to your first gig together. If you’re good at using art software, why not add a personalised cover for a truly personalised touch. Another suggestion is that you can perform your own version of your favourite song on guitar, or any other musical instrument when dressed in your suit and cashmere tie.
When putting on your suit and browsing your cashmere ties for that perfect outfit for a night out with your part, have some code words in place so you can excite each other without other people within earshot knowing what’s going on. You may also want to look at booking a hotel so you can relax in an evening with your loved one in the hotel jacuzzi until it’s time to retire.
When shopping for clothes, think of uses for them when the two of you alone. For example, when you’re browsing for gent’s cashmere ties, they can make for a handy blindfold to lead your loved one to a surprise at the end of your day, maybe a restaurant or a romantic trip somewhere.
Watching a movie together may seem like a cliché, but cuddling when watching the movie can tell your partner how much you love them without saying a word. You don’t have to opt for the generic romantic comedy. Look at horror movies and thrillers so you can hold your loved one during the more tense moments of the movie.
Polite, but strong
The first thing any man should aim for when looking to be accepted as a gentleman is that all-important first impression. But what does this entail? Is it wearing cashmere ties, is it wearing a tuxedo, and is it being clean shaved? When mixing in social circles, ensure you remain polite, but strong. A firm handshake with a stern but friendly introduction will do wonders for how others view you.
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Scrub up
This may seem obvious, but good hygiene is always a must. Regardless of your trendy cashmere ties and designer suits, being unhygienic will give people the wrong impression of you. Regardless of whether you’re going out formally wearing something from your collection of trendy suits or simply meeting friends for a more formal social event, ensure that you are showered and looking fresh and alert.
Don’t lie, it’s not needed
Being honest is another important point to take on board, this includes with yourself. If you’re heading out in an outfit that is only being worn on a recommendation from someone else, stop and think for a moment. Do you want to be wearing straightforward jeans and t-shirt, or do you want to make an impression with designer suits and lovely woollen tie this winter? If it’s the latter, then do so. Being honest with others is also important, while there’s no good way of saying certain things sometimes, most will respect that you were truthful.
Think of others
Another thing to focus on when mixing with people is to make them feel like that they’re the centre of attention. This may seem odd, but focusing on a good career or beautiful house may just come across as arrogant. Ensure that you show an active interest in what others have to say, you will find that they will become naturally drawn to you and interested in you as a person.
Lay down the hat
You may have found the right kind of hat to compliment your outfit and cashmere tie, but ensure that it comes off when you’re indoors. While it may not seem unusual to see a room full of men wearing hats, when entering an establishment it’s considered polite to remove your hat if you’re staying for some time. This can be a hat you’re wearing to compliment your outfit or a simple beanie hat to keep warm, either way ensure it stays off your head at the right times.
Patience is a virtue
It’s also considered polite to wait for others to get their food before tucking into your own, plus it eliminates that awkward moment where you’re finished before everyone else. However, if there are more than six of you, the rules change, as waiting for others can make them feel a little awkward and uneasy.